Dholki Ceremony in Muslim Weddings
What Is the Dholki Ceremony?
Dholki is a musical pre-wedding celebration in South Asian Muslim weddings where women gather to sing traditional wedding songs accompanied by the dholki (a small hand drum).
It is a cultural celebration, not a religious ritual.
When Is Dholki Held?
Dholki functions are usually held in the days leading up to the Nikah. In some families, small Dholki gatherings happen nightly before the wedding.
Who Typically Celebrates It?
Dholki is commonly observed in:
- North Indian Muslim weddings
- Hyderabadi Muslim families
- Pakistani-influenced wedding traditions
It is less formal and may not be printed on every invitation unless it is a larger gathering.
What Happens During the Dholki Celebration?
Women gather at the bride’s home, sing traditional songs, clap rhythms, and celebrate the upcoming marriage. In modern weddings, Dholki events may include:
- Coordinated décor (often green or yellow themes)
- Group dances
Light refreshments
Is It Optional or Regional?
Dholki is optional and cultural. It is popular in North Indian and Hyderabadi Muslim communities but not universally practiced across all Indian Muslim weddings.